Pak Harto, a hard-working, disciplined, and meticulous person, was known for his punctuality and neat handwriting. He had a photographic memory and was skilled with numbers. He encouraged the study of science and technology, even abroad, despite not having been educated overseas himself. Pak Harto was rarely seen angry, and when he was, he would be silent and avoid speaking to angry people.
In 1983, I became Pak Harto’s son-in-law. I had served as a captain in East Timor, leading operations with KOPASSANDHA Group 1 and as Commander of Chandraca 8. I observed Pak Harto’s strict daily routine, which included early mornings, office work, golf, and meeting guests in the evenings. Despite his busy schedule, he would spend hours working late into the night, often with only a few hours of sleep.
Pak Harto had a deep understanding of Javanese philosophy and history, which he often incorporated into his leadership style. His book, Butir-Butir Budaya Jawa, compiled Javanese teachings and adages that reflected his wisdom and guidance for successful living.
One memorable encounter with Pak Harto was before an operation in East Timor. He offered me three pieces of advice: Ojo lali, ojo dumeh, ojo ngoyo, meaning ‘do not forget, do not be haughty, and do not be discouraged’. Despite expecting financial assistance, his words of wisdom proved invaluable as I led my battalion.
Pak Harto’s extensive combat experience and leadership in various operations gave weight to his advice. His guidance continues to inspire and guide those who seek to follow in his footsteps.